The Better Relationships Huddle

You share with me your biggest issue with your relationship right now. The impact of getting things off your chest is immense, especially if you’ve been holding it in for a while. I listen intently without judgment or criticism. 

We then identify what you want to happen as a result of the session: what you want instead of what is happening now. We’ll explore your Relationship Language: how it’s helping or hurting, how to leverage it for better interactions, and how to communicate differently. I’ll talk you through how to shift your energy, master the skill of getting into neutral, and change your interactions with your partner so you get the outcome you want

At the end of the session, you’ll have 3 Relationship Actions which you can start working on straight away.

It sure can! In the best-case scenario, your partner will be interested in what you’ve learned and want to know how they can contribute to improving the relationship too. But even if this is not the case, you can make a difference through the changes I advise. When you transform your energy, behaviors, and communication skills, there is a ripple effect in how your partner interacts and communicates with you.

Having worked with many clients, I know that it is indeed possible in 45 minutes to talk about your biggest relationship issue, identify what you want to change, and formulate a plan to get your needs met. It is the ideal kickstart for transforming your relationship. Plus, there is a Follow Up session which will (see request for more details on this in the comments)

However, sometimes clients are so relieved at having the space to talk openly and without judgement that they want to spend the whole 45 minutes offloading the weight they’ve been carrying around. If this is you, I won’t rush you. Letting it all out is essential for being able to move forward. In this case, I will recommend adding on a second discounted session where we can start exploring the future and identifying your action steps.

I can guarantee my commitment to you feeling better about yourself and your relationship. I can guarantee my support in helping you make the best choices for yourself and your relationship going forward, my support as you learn new relationship and communication skills, and that I will be a champion for you being a happier, healthier, and more harmonious partner and self.  

The outcome of your relationship though cannot be guaranteed. Humans are dynamic in nature and in our relationships. People’s wants and needs can change over time. I also cannot guarantee what actions you take in your relationship.

You haven’t yet given up yet and you’re here on my page so there is hope. Even though you are worried you’re too far gone, I recommend working through the issues in this relationship before deciding to end it. This will give you the opportunity to view your relationship through the eyes of a happier, healthier, and more harmonious version of yourself. It can be hard to make decisions when emotions are high.

While it is extremely rare in my work with couples, sometimes it happens that you both cannot come to terms with each other’s wants or needs to the point that you decide to end the relationship. Even if this is the case, the work you do in the session will be immensely valuable. You’ll be better prepared for success in a new relationship and have a far greater understanding of your needs for a happy, healthy, harmonious relationship.