Save Your Relationship in a Weekend

Discover your relationship language and how it differs from that of your partner. Resolve your biggest complaints, concerns, and criticisms by gaining a deep understanding of each other’s relationship language.  You’ll learn about the most destructive and constructive relationship habits… and how to stop being destructive, start being constructive.  You’ll learn how to ask for what you need from your partner when they’re being destructive.

Assess your satisfaction with each of the 15 relationship competencies necessary for happy, healthy relationships.  We’ll review your self-assessment, conduct a gap analysis, and work to resolve the ones you are not happy with in collaboration with your partner.

Know how to tap into the wisdom of your emotions without feeling badly about them or yourself.  Using the 4 basic positive and negative themes of emotions that subconsciously govern our behaviors, you’ll be able to restore your emotional well-being quickly. You will be equipped ahead of time to breeze through the times when you’re feeling the feels more intensely and when others may act out more than usual. 

You will getaway for a facilitated, meditated, and guided weekend in Southwest Arizona where you will stay in a peaceful, private, and safe fully furnished casita with a kitchen.  We’ll confirm your meal arrangements, our schedule, and what we’ll be doing together before you arrive.  Once you arrive, after a proper welcome and intention setting ceremony, we’ll begin to work together on saving your marriage in one weekend.

Start with an introductory call to meet and connect with each other…. to see if we’re a fit for each other and whether or not you feel… or think… the save your marriage in one weekend is the best option for you and your partner.

Confidentiality helps build trust and a safe space for us so that we can quickly get to work on saving your relationship in a weekend. A strict confidentiality policy is a requirement due to the intimate nature of the work that we’ll be doing together… that means, if I don’t have explicit, written or verbal permission (confirmed in the presence of your partner prior to sharing) from you to share something with your partner… or anyone else… I won’t… not even with my husband.

(There are only 2 exceptions: legal requirement or any concern for your safety/wellbeing).

Once you and your partner complete the Relationship Languages and 15 Competencies self-assessments, and Confidentiality Agreement … we’ll meet by phone or zoom individually to walk through your requirements, needs, along with the big and small things you want to resolve in your marriage.  I’ll also answer all your questions and concerns.  We’ll mutually align and agree on what to discuss in the joint call with you, your partner, and me.

During this facilitated call, we’ll already have worked out a plan on what to discuss together which I will review with both of you.  You’ll each have an opportunity to share anything you’d like, safely, with guidance and mediation from me.  We’ll discuss next steps and you’ll make a decision to move forward with schedule your save your marriage in one weekend event date with me and make arrangements for meals.

Your weekend will be held in Arizona where you will stay overnight in a lovely, private, safe, and fairly secluded fully furnished casita with a kitchen.  We’ll confirm your meal arrangements, our schedule, and what we’ll be doing together before you arrive.  Once you get arrive, after a proper welcome and intention setting ceremony, we’ll begin to work together on saving your marriage in one weekend. If travel is not feasible, alternative arrangements can be made to best support you both.

 into the We’ve done a lot up to this point… And now you’re at home, interacting with each other in your day to day life.  In my experience, this is the time couples slip back into their prior habits and ways of interacting.

It takes time to implement all that you’ve learned and ongoing support helps you stay grounded, and keep forward momentum on the progress made during the weekend. A 60-day support plan is included after which we can work out what you need going forward to keep your relationship happy, healthy, and harmonious.

Often, one or both of you will want triage support for those times when things get a bit heated so that we can put some water on the fire and get you back on track.  It’s hard to predict what’s needed at this point, but I can tell you that every couple does want some level of post event triage (like a 911 call to me) and nurture support.