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Marriage Life and Relationship Coaching Services

CREATING YOUR HAPPY, HEALTHY, HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP
TRANSFORMATION COACHING FOR COUPLES

1:1 Personalized Coaching

3 OR 6 MONTH COMMITMENT

Needing to focus on yourself to know what you want, need, and require from your partner and relationship going forward when things are not so great between you is a good thing – even when your partner is not into it.  Your relationship can dramatically improve when you stop focusing on the relationship or your partner and instead focus on your own growth, communication, and relationship skills. Marriage Life and Relationship Coaching Services

This plan if perfect for you are feeling:

FRUSTRATED BY YOUR PARTNER'S BEHAVIOR...

There are things they do and say that you feel terrible about, especially when they do it in front of your friends or family.  There is a way to get them to treat you with respect without having to argue or ask them to change.

OVERWHELMED BY ALL THE LIES OR CHEATING...

Erosion of trust, respect, and love is devastating especially when your own partner does it to you.  There may be some options to stop them from doing this to you and for you to heal from the betrayal whether you choose to stay together or not.

NOT SURE HOW TO COMMUNICATE HOW YOU FEEL...

It’s hard to talk about how your partner hurts your feelings, especially when they dismiss you when you do tell them.  There are other ways to communicate so that you are heard, understood, and supported.  There also are ways to have your partner be kinder, compassionate, and caring in how they communicate with you especially when you’re upset.

Couple’s Coaching

A DELICATE BALANCE OF INDIVIDUAL AND TOGETHER SESSIONS

You had a wonderful relationship all this time but lately things have gotten sideways.  You cannot seem to agree on anything, argue more each day, aren’t respecting each other’s feelings, and are not aligning on even the simplest day to day tasks.  You have one foot out the door, have mentioned the dreaded D-ivorce word at least once recently, but neither of you are ending it just yet.  You want to see if you can save your relationship, and if not, leave peacefully and in a healthy way, knowing you will be ok on your own.

This plan if perfect for you are feeling:

FRUSTRATED YOU'RE NOT SEEING EYE TO EYE...

Disagreements, broken promises, not following up, or just flat out arguing is wearing you and your relationship down.

OVERWHELMED BY HOW HARD IT IS TO HAVE A GOOD DAY...

You try to keep the peace, make sure your partner’s needs are taken care of, and keep the household going, but it’s just not enough any more.  They don’t seem to care of appreciate all that you do and you’re exhausted from trying so hard.

NOT SURE HOW TO MAKE THINGS BETTER...

You feel like you have tried everything to make things better in your relationship with your partner, but nothing is working. You think it may just be best if you end it, but neither of you are doing anything to end it yet.  Deep down, you both would like to give it a shot to save your relationship.

VIP Save My Marriage in a Weekend

A weekend immersion to mend everything that’s gone wrong in your marriage can get you on the path to having a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship. You would be elated with just how much can be sorted in just two days together. Marriage Life and Relationship Coaching Services

This plan if perfect for you are feeling:

FRUSTRATED BY OTHER THERAPIES...

You’ve either already tried marriage counseling and are frustrated because it did not fix things between you two, you don’t want to be diagnosed with an ailment when there is nothing wrong with your health, or you want an alternative forward focused, positive, results and solution oriented approach.

OVERWHELMED BY ALL THE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE...

You’ve seen the advice online, heard opinions from friends or family, read Dear Abby or other columns, and taken quizzes to help you sort things out in your marriage.  But all that advice is missing the mark.  Your past, family, and marriage is unique to you so the cookie cutter one solution for everyone is not enough to put you on the path to having a happy, healthy, harmonious relationship.

NOT SURE HOW TO COMMUNICATE HOW IMPORTANT YOUR MARRIAGE IS...

You’ve been telling your partner that your marriage is important to you, you want to fix things between you, and make things better.  They hear you and say they agree, but neither of you are taking any action to get professional support or coaching to create a happier, healthier, and harmonious marriage.

The 6 Essential Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship

My approach to helping couples improve or save their relationship is based on what I believe – and have identified in my years of supporting couples – are the essential ingredients to a healthy relationship. Marriage Life and Relationship Coaching Services Relationship Coach for Couples

I’ve created my Relationship Success System™ to help couples unlock these essential ingredients for a happy, healthy, harmonious relationship. Marriage Life and Relationship Coaching Services

And, when helping you strengthen or save your relationship, there are six areas that are essential for us to explore. Marriage Life and Relationship Coaching Services

2 Healthy Individuals = A Happy, Healthy Relationship - Dr. Dar Hawks

2 Healthy Individuals

It begins with two healthy individuals who do not need their partner to be their source of wellness, emotional happiness or financial stability.

Healthy Mindsets - 2 Healthy Individuals - Dr. Dar Hawks

Healthy Mindsets

It needs each partner to have a clear mindset demonstrating awareness of their own needs, their own actions, and their own Relationship Language.

Healthy And Unhealthry Relationship Behaviors Drdarhawks

Healthy Behaviors

It requires an understanding of what healthy behaviors look like in a harmonious relationship.

Curious And Clean Communication For Couples - Dr. Dar Hawks

Clean Communication

It depends on clean communication free of expectation and based on open-minded listening and finding common ground.

Managing Your Own Energy - Relationship Skills For Couples - Dr. Dar Hawks

Managing Your Own Energy

It benefits from an understanding of the energy each individual brings to the relationship, how their energy combines for good or bad, and for it to be healed if necessary.

Quality Time Together - Relationship Success For Couples - Dr. Dar Hawks

Quality Time Together

It demands quality time together where each partner is able to share their passions in life while finding common interests that strengthen the connection.

WHAT TO EXPECT…

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Compassionate Custom Support

Relationship, communication, and marriage coaching support from someone who walks their talk, has done their own work to have a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship, and who is patient and understanding while supporting you in new relationship skill building will help you do the same.

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Learn Relationship and Communication Skills Not Taught Anywhere Else

You’ll learn how you communicate and your actions, as well as those of your partners, is contributing to your relationship not working right now.  You’ll learn what to do differently, and how to say things to each other so that you feel heard and connected going forward based on my unique Relationship Success System.

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Transform Your Relationship and Life

Relationship success is not based on what you both do or say to each other.  It’s based on the energy you both bring to each other and your relationship.  Much like water turning to steam, ice, or liquid, the energy in your relationship can transform so that you create a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship going forward.  Let me show you how.

WHAT NOT TO EXPECT..

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Shame, Blame, Humiliation, Judgment or Fault

What’s happened in your relationship is just what’s happened.  What you do going forward about it is what matters most.  Not whether you are to blame, whose fault it is, feeling ashamed or embarrassed about what’s happened or what you or your partner did or did not do. 
 

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No Accountability for Doing Your Part

Whether you work with me individually or as a couple, you are individually and both accountable for the results that get produced going forward. 

Actively participating in the activities, learning, and using the tools will help you improve your relationship, but only if you actively and ongoingly use them.

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Short Term Fix

Expecting everything to be resolved in a couple of sessions is unreasonable.  While my clients report getting significant results in just three to five sessions, I want to remind you that you’ve had your whole life as a single person, and then years together as a partner in a relationship that’s trained you to be a certain way.  It will take time, patience, practice, and consistency to learn and apply the new tools that are essential for having a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship that lasts.

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