The Better Relationships Toolkit

a fresh approach 

 Your Better Relationships Toolkit

Having a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship can be as easy as getting this toolkit and learning a different way to nurture yourself, your partner, and your relationship so that it gets better and better every day.

You can have a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship starting today.


  • Learn new healthy relationship habits.
  • Experience a new way of communicating and connecting with your partner.
  • Bring more happiness into your relationship.
  • Find more love for each other as you learn new skills that bring you closer, help you resolve conflict, communicate well, and be confident in yourself, each other, and your relationship. 
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Does this sound familiar?

Your relationship is important to you, but you’re just not sure how to recommit, restore respect, communicate better, and move forward from what’s happened.


  • Feel anxious talking about the issues between you because it causes both of you to raise your voices and make things worse than they already are?
  • Love the idea of having a happy, healthy, relationship but are not sure it can happen with things the way they are right now?
  • You’ve had some sleepless nights, not knowing what the future holds?
  • You’re upset about their behaviors, choices, and actions but don’t know what to do to make it better?
  • You’re feeling embarrassed about how things are in your relationship and cannot believe it’s happening to?
  • Frustrated with how things are just not getting better, no matter what you do or say?

what you receive

Here’s what you will be receiving in your better relationships toolkit


Understanding Each Other

Overview of the 5 Relationship Languages and how they will help you understand each other better, manage differences better, and communicate openly and honestly with each other without upset or arguing.


Expand Your Relationship Skills

Learn the 15 essential skills necessary to have a happy, healthy, relationship.  A self-assessment for you to identify your needs related to these skills, and a script on how to ask your partner for support in getting them met.


Healthy Relationship Behaviors

Know the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors, what to do when they happen, and how to shift to healthier behaviors.  Understand what happens before and during the actions so that you can choose healthier ones going forward.


Communicate with Neutral Curiousity

My 5 step process to communicate in a way that draws you closer to each other, makes you both feel ultra supported by each other, has your partner taking the initiative to share more openly with you, and builds emotional connection.


Be Seen, Heard, and Understood

Listening is one gift to give each other, but more importantly, being heard and understood builds mutual respect, honestly, and love in a relationship.  Assess how well you listen to your partner, receive a script so you know how to get their honest feedback, and know how to practice compassionate listening.


Your Emotional Bank Account

How to measure and manage your emotional bank account with your partner so that you know how to fill it with deposits every day.

Learn how to stop making unconscious withdrawals so that you both feel emotionally supported and trusted fully.

nurturing support

The resources inside The Better Relationships Toolkit are designed to walk you through my step-by-step approach to make your relationship better

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Video Lessons

I will personally walk you through each pdf in your toolkit, examples of what to do to make your relationship better, and how to retain the new skills so that you don’t go back to the way things were.


Helpful Guides

Visual guides to walk you through what’s in each pdf package and step by step instructions on what to do with each lesson.

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Self Assessment Worksheets

Journaling, affirmations, and worksheets to help you evaluate where you are currently with your relationship skills so you know which areas to improve upon.

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Bonus Coaching Add On

Add a 1:1 live coaching session to support you in creating a happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship with your partner, how to use these tools, and pick my relationship brain.


Membership in private Facebook group

Optional Membership in my Relationship Success private Facebook group where you receive additional tips, advice, and discounts on new tools.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How is my toolkit delivered?

Once you submit your payment, you’ll be routed to a page where you can download your pdfs.  You can also schedule your add on bonus discounted coaching session at that time.  I’ll also send you an email with everything you need to get your toolkit in case you were not able to dowload it right away.

What payment methods do you accept ?

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How do I schedule my add on coaching session ?


Do you offer a virtual appointment for the bonus 1:1 live coaching ?

Of course, phone or zoom depending on your preference for only voice or voice and video conferencing.

The first important relationship you will ever have is with yourself, the second is with your life partner. Investing in making these two relationships better will bring happiness, healthy and harmony in your life.

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Dr. Dar Hawks, Relationship Coach For Couples - Wishing You Happy, Healthy, Relationships

Hello, I’m Dr. Dar

Your Relationship is Your Priority

Relationships are the cause of our joy and our pain.

I know how hard it can be when relationships are causing pain. In fact, every problem I have had in my life is the result of unhealthy relationships. Better Relationship Toolkit

Dozens of failed relationships sent me on a journey to better understand what was happening inside my relationships – and the impact I can have on a relationship. 

My travels through self-awareness, and my subsequent professional training in couples, life and family coaching have enabled me to discover and pursue my mission: helping others to create happy, healthy and harmonious relationships. we be happy in ourselves, in our family units, in our communities and – yes – in our world. 

And that’s why I have created my Relationship Success System for you. I want you to have the tools and support to fully understand your relationship and the power you have to shape that relationship into the source of joy you want it to be. Better Relationship Toolkit

I’m so glad you are here as it shows that you value your relationship, that you are ready to create change, and you know it’s time to get support. This is your incredible first step.

Explore the advice and services I have to offer. If you have any questions, I am here. Just head to the Contact Me button and I’ll be in touch. Better Relationship Toolkit

From my heart to yours,
Dr Dar 

I believe that healthy relationships are
achieved by:

Being a Healthy Person | Having a Healthy Relationship Mindset & Behaviors | Communicating Cleanly & Curiously |  Managing Your Energy | Having Quality Time Together


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