Hello, I’m Dr. Dar Hawks,
The Marriage & Relationship Coach for Couples
You Have the Power to Change Your Relationship
Your Happy, Healthy, Harmonious Relationship Begins Here
Without the right understanding and the right tools, I know that relationships can be hard. And a difficult relationship impacts everything you do, right?
You’ve probably heard the saying that ‘relationships are hard work’ or ‘you have to work at a marriage’. But has anyone ever told you what that work looks like? Or explained HOW to bring out the best in your relationship?
And, did you know that, if you put in the work to understand each other now, a relationship doesn’t have to be such hard work? It can feel good and right.
I know what it’s like to struggle with relationships. After dozens of failures, I finally decided it was time to truly understand who I am in relationships, what I really need, and how the best relationship for me works.
Through years of self-exploration, professional training and working with clients, I formulated my Relationship Success System. Not only do I now use this to support my clients, but it has transformed my own relationship. I couldn’t be happier.
I want that happiness for you too. It is possible.
With my support, and my Relationship Success System, you can create the happy, healthy, and harmonious relationship you long for.
I am here for you. I welcome you to explore my services or simply reach out to me for a chat. Consider my Contact Form an open door.
From my heart to yours,
Dr Dar
Where it all began
During my corporate career, I was always asked to save failing projects or liaise with the most difficult customers.
I remember an executive saying, “Give it to Darshana. She can fix it.” This happened throughout my career as a project manager and team manager.
The most difficult situations and teams would be handed to me as I could be relied upon to get everyone on the same page, supporting each other to get the job done.
If I could fix all these issues at work, surely I could fix my relationships? With a Ph.D. in Metaphysics, Philosophy, and Behavior, I had a head start.
My next step was to learn all I could about coaching, from leadership and business coaching to family, life and relationship coaching.
I explored alternative approaches too, including Healing, Human Energy, Astro Psychology, Human Design and more.
Every client and every couple I work with is unique, so I have ensured I can provide the most well-rounded, personalized approach for you. I listen to your story, explore your needs, and feel your energy.
My mission, and my joy, is to help you shed the shackles that create struggle in your relationship so that you become fulfilled in all your relationships, in your work, and in your life.
The Six Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship
My approach to helping couples improve or save their relationship is based on what I believe – and have identified in my years of supporting couples as a marriage coach – are the essential ingredients to a healthy relationship. Dr. Dar Hawks – The Marriage, Life & Relationship Coach for Couples
I’ve created my Relationship Success System™ to help couples unlock these essential ingredients for a happy, healthy, harmonious relationship.
And, when helping you strengthen or save your relationship, there are six areas that are essential for us to explore.
2 Healthy Individuals
It begins with two healthy individuals who do not need their partner to be their source of wellness, emotional happiness or financial stability.
Healthy Relationship Mindsets
It needs each partner to have a clear mindset demonstrating awareness of their own needs, their own actions, and their own Relationship Language.
Healthy Relationship Behaviors
It requires an understanding of what healthy behaviors look like in a harmonious relationship.
Clean Curious Communication
It depends on clean communication free of expectation and based on open-minded listening and finding common ground.
Managing Your Energy
It benefits from an understanding of the energy each individual brings to the relationship, how their energy combines for good or bad, and for it to be healed if necessary.
Quality Time Together
It demands quality time together where each partner is able to share their passions in life while finding common interests that strengthen the connection.
Your relationship is an investment in happiness, health, and harmony in your life. It takes time, effort, learning relationship connection skills, and the right support team. I’m always here for you. ~ Dr. Dar
my story
WHY I BECAME A RELATIONSHIP COACH
After thirty one failed relationships as a single person, I wanted to know what it took to succeed… To find the person who would love me no matter what, support me in my dreams, trust me with their life and heart, fit in with my family – respectful of their culture, and heal and grow together as we aged. I wanted to know what it takes to make a relationship happy, healthy, and harmonious.
So, I dove into studying deep within myself and about relationships, communication, human behavior, coaching, and success principles. It was not too long after meeting my husband while I was practicing what I learned that I was asked to help a couple stay together – she had her bags packed but was willing to see what I could do. We worked through money, intimacy, trust, shared chores, and conflict free communication skills. They are still together today and using the skills they learned over twenty years ago.
Because relationships cause our joy and pain, I felt strongly, in a goose bumpy way, that receiving the plea to help that couple was a Divine calling for me to embrace my role as a marriage coach to help couples create happy, healthy harmonious relationships.
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